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Culture
of Africa
In Ghana you will be confronted with cultural differences. Getting acquainted
with some local customs before your departure will ease communication
with the local people once you are in Ghana. For this reason, we listed
some aspects of the African culture below.
Friendship
Making friends with people you like (especially if they are of the same
gender and age explain and clarify cultural differences for you. They
can offer you an introduction to their culture and cultural events, like
weddings, funerals etcetera.
Visits
Visits to ill acquaintances will be greatly appreciated. In general, it
is very common to regularly visit people you know. What may seem odd to
foreigners is that you may decide to stick around not very long. You visit,
greet and then leave. Greetings and regular visits are crucial for establishing
good relations with people and an important part of the Ghanaian culture.
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Customs
for visits
Whenever you visit someone, you will take of your shoes or slippers before
entering the house. It is impolite to enter a house with your shoes or slippers.
All visitors are offered water when entering the house. This custom is very
obvious, when you realize that the climate is very hot and people tend to
walk long distances. It is customary to hand over a small gift if you visit
respectable persons, like a chief or a traditional healer. A typical gift
is some Kola nuts or the equivalent in money.
Ask and Receive
In Ghana, it is normal to ask other people to give you an item that you
need or like to have. You will probably have regular encounters with people
who ask you for your earrings, shoes or Walkman. Since this is very uncommon
in our culture you might not know how to respond to those direct questions.
An accepted response is to deny because you have only one object of the
asked items. Many Ghanaians will give their relatives or friend or an
occasional poor person whatever they ask for if they have a spare.Another
acceptable response is to avoid a direct answer and kindly say “maybe
later/tomorrow". It will rarely happen that someone will return the
next day to ask you again for the item. A third possibility is to explain
kindly why you cannot miss the item. As long as you remain calm and friendly
the deny will be accepted. How ever, being rude or the common Western
response to ignore the person who asks you will not be understood. You
might learn the art of giving, as long as you give an item to someone
you like and because you want to, not because you feel obliged to. Ghanaians
will give each other item very easily. In return, you may ask your friend
for items: true friendship is based on easy sharing of goods. However,
it is not necessary to give your possessions to complete strangers, just
because they ask you.
African
Time
You probably know that Africans are less bound to time than we are. Not
many Ghanaians will announce visits and agreed times for meetings but
are often not met - if a time was agreed on at all. You will regularly
find yourself waiting for other people who you agreed to meet at a certain
time and place. When confronted with their absence, their response will
probably be surprised. Rain, for example, is a legitimate reason to postpone
or cancel a meeting “Africans don't go outside when it rains".
To arm yourself against annoyance, you will have to develop patience.
In Ghana, a lot of time is spent on waiting. Apparently Ghanaians understand
that Westerners need to develop patience to adept the Ghanaian life style.
Patience is a highly respected trait in Ghanaian culture; patient people
are wise and will achieve anything, because they take the time to get
there. Impatient people are looked down on; their behavior is regarded
as childish. This is why it is pointless to loose your temper when things
run slower than you want them to be: as a response, people tend to move
even slower to get things done for you.
Curiosity
In the Western culture we are used to pose a lot of questions. It shows
an interest in the person with who you are conversing. In Ghana too much
curiosity is seen as rude. To ask many questions to somebody means you
don't trust the person or you want to criticize him. If you ask somebody
too much about how things are organized or where somebody has been; people
can get irritated. Try to develop to trust people without the need to
know how and when exactly things will be arranged.
Right Hand
Only the right hand is used for eating. Ghanaians will wash their buttocks
with their left hand. Hence it is very impolite to use this hand. Anything
is passed with using only the right hand. If you cannot avoid using your
left hand, for example when you are holding something heavy in your right
hand, you will say “excuse left".
Social
Security
To most indigenous Ghanaians, it is very common to visit and greet your
acquaintances and to give money or goods to friends who need them; there
is less awareness of yours and mine. The easy sharing might be the reason
why Ghanaians see no use in saving money: why save money, if you can loose
it to someone else in a second? This will lead to a problem, however,
when there are unexpected high expenses, for example a hospital bill.
The solution is to rely on your carefully built social network. Whenever
a large sum of money is needed, it is recollected from your friends, or
people that you gave money to in the past. In this way, your social network
serves you as a social insurance. This is why it is so important to be
known and liked by many people. Related to this is the importance of keeping
your reputation high. This is why people put so much effort in being respected
or liked by others. Consequently, honesty and sincerity - two very important
qualities in Western cultures- are not always viewed very positively.
Instead, respect, politeness and helping other people are valued highly.
Dress
Code
Ghanaians tend to dress up for visits or trips to town. The traditional
backpackers outfit is not very well received by Ghanaians. If you are
rich - and as a Westerner you are - you must have a lack of respect or
respect for the other person if dressed in worn out clothes. It is relatively
cheap and easy to have your clothes made form local fabrics. Next to dressing
nicely, it is important to dress properly. Bare thighs or hips are taboo.
Women wear shorts underneath their skirts to ensure covering of these
parts. Wearing shorts-only will raise an eyebrow with the locals, as it
is viewed as underwear. If you sit down, make sure not to spread or cross
your legs. On the other hand, bare chest are more accepted than we are
used to. Bare chest women are a common sight in villages. Last, all girls
wear earrings that identifies you as a real woman.Join in with daily activitiesIt
is recommended to help the people in your compound with their daily activities
right from the start. You will be told to rest and stop helping, but it
pays to insist and pretend to be angry or disappointed when you are not
allowed to help. In the end, people will call on you to join them in activities
of which they know you like to help. Examples of daily activities are
fetching water, sweeping the floor, doing laundry, cooking, picking fruits
and wood from the forest, carrying babies, helping to construct new homes,
seed peanuts, help women to sell products on the market, and many more.
Joining the daily activities will reward you with a sense of belonging
and having nice interactions (verbal or non-verbal) with the locals. |